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chosen, not kept

An advice column by Summer Wilder

Advice for the moments when loving someone 
and choosing yourself become the same fight. 

THE LATEST FROM SUMMER

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TUESDAY, MARCH 5, 2024

You can remember the good, acknowledge the love, miss what you had, and still know that returning would cost you too much.

You Don't Have to Hate Them to Leave Them

PAST ENTRIES

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TUESDAY, FEBRUARY 27, 2024

The Love You Keep Forgetting About

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TUESDAY, FEBRUARY 20, 2024

Stop Falling in Love with Potential

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TUESDAY, FEBRUARY 14, 2024

Being Chosen Isn't the Same as Being Loved

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TUESDAY, FEBRUARY 6, 2024

If They Wanted To, They Would...Right?

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HAVE A QUESTION FOR SUMMER?

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